05 July 2023

Tarantino, fascism, cinema, and violence

Rescued from Twitter:


Emperor Norton <@ashleynaftule> argues:

Something I really appreciate about Inglorious Basterds and Django Unchained is that they are a very rare species of Hollywood cinema that understands that half-measures in the face of fascism don’t work and doesn't try to equivocate about the morality of its political violence

tl;dr Nazis and slave-owners getting absolutely Itchy & Scratchy wrecked is good

Like, Quentin isn’t a Marxist or anything but it’s hilarious when people call him a reactionary. Absolutely no conservative on planet Earth would take this much joy from depicting jackboots and slavemasters getting turned into torrential streams of uncanned Chef Boyardee

I find this fascinating because I simultaneously understand this reading and think it is profoundly wrong.

Both Basterds and Django call shenanigans on cathartic movie violence. They say: “Hey, in the world we portray in movies, slavery and WWII would have been over quickly with victories over evil. So movie logic is bullshit.”

As I have described before at length, I do not see how one can watch the Bear Jew sequence in Basterds and read the movie as just a cathartic good time killin’ Nazis. It drags us back and forth over the line of I Want To See It Happen vs Oh Gods No I Don’t. Tarantino marshals every bit of cinematic vocabulary he can — framing, music, editing, et cetera — to give the Nazi a Stoic Heroic Sacrifice at the hands of cruel maniacs. Not just a German soldier, a guy who expresses his antisemitism directly.

Nazi officer with the Bear Jew’s bat poised next to his head in the movie ‘Inglorious Basterds’

It is not Tarantino saying that Nazis are the real heroes here; one cannot read the movie that way. It is Tarantino criticizing movies. Criticizing the kind of violent movies he himself has made.

Understand, I love a cathartic good time watching movie heroes killin’ Nazis. My favorite scene in all of cinema is one of those.

I love Tarkovsky and Kurosawa and Bergman and all that film nerd shit but honestly this is my favorite scene in any film I have ever seen. I have watched it a hundred times and I will watch it a hundred more. There should have been ten movies of this.



I am not above enjoying Inglorious Basterds that way as well. It invites us to! But I think it delivers that in service of trying to get us to examine why and how we like it.

  1. The movie gives us a theater full of Nazis gleefully enjoying a movie depicting pointless nihilistic violence. Tarantino is asking, “What the fuck is wrong with me and my audience? Is this what we are?”
  2. Not for nothing, the logic of cinema reverses at the end of Inglorious Basterds. The Action Heroes’ plan fails. The Nazis are defeated by ordinary people, a Black man and Jewish woman, by them burning their back catalgoue of films.
  3. The overpoweredginger <@AdmiralOPG> adds:

    also I think it’s worth noting that the Allies’ plan fails not just because of the violence, but also because of the language

    their inability to communicate like the Germans & Italians directly hampers their effectiveness, but the people from within that environment don’t

    Tarantino says here that expertise in violence is worthless where it really counts; cultural sophistication is far more powerful. Notice how from the very beginning, his films have been Comedies Of Manners Decorated With Violence.

Turning to Django Unchained, of course there is a lot going on in it. Surely one can see in there its own ambivalence about the fantasy of cinema projected onto real historical horrors? Yeah, it feels great to unleash Black Cowboy Murder on slavers, and movie logic lets Django & Broomhilda get away. But in the movie, slavery is not defeated, is it?

Literally as I was walking out of the theater, it was clear to me that it was about not history but movies about slavery, making it impossible to watch Gone With The Wind uncritically. I said at the time:

Django Unchained is, first among many interesting things, Tarantino vs. Selznick. Tarantino wins.

I think that needed doing.


Now Tarantino does have a third, explicitly political film about how we respond to the fascist sensibility.

Poster for the Quentin Tarantino movie ‘The Hateful Eight’

And boy howdy is The Hateful Eight a lot more complicated than either simply advocating responding with violence, or not. Maybe someday I will find time to write about that, or find someone who has already said it better than I could.

The fae courts of America

Rescuing another thread from Twitter.


It starts with David Thomas Moore <@dtmooreeditor> saying:

Headcanon:


Hotel California and The House of the Rising Sun are rival fae courts, and She and The Gamblin’ Man are their monarchs, locked in an endless war for the souls of America.

New blue jeans sewn by your mother are a powerful protection charm, but you must never take them off, and the creatures of the Two Houses will give you powerful incentives to do so.

A mirror on the ceiling will trap an unwary fae. Pink champagne is a lure to them, and can seal a sworn oath of loyalty.

The Gamblin’ Man can be outwitted, outfought or reasoned with, but only when sober. He carries a suitcase and a trunk everywhere he goes. Tempted though you may be, never open them without his invitation.

She keeps many treasures — Tiffany jewels, a Mercedes Benz — but will tolerate no wine being poured in Her hall, for reasons She does not share.

There is a Beast in the Master’s Chamber. It can never die.

(They say She took wine with Buzz Aldrin, Her last mortal consort. She truly loved him, they say, and so afeared for his soul was he that he fled the Earth to be free, and now She cannot bear to taste or even see it.)

I offered additional lore, mostly responding to comments on this and elsewhere.


DrBlonde <@DrBlonde1> adds:

In the version I know, the singer is the Gamblin’ Man’s wife, tempted away from her home. But as she ages & her husband does not, he becomes more and more obsessed with a projection of She which roams outside the Hotel’s walls. She has no name but the fishermen call her Jolene

The song “Jolene” is a protective charm against She, the Queen of Hotel California. There are additional, secret verses which are more powerful, but one risks one’s sanity learning too many of them.


Gail Simone wonders:

Seriously though what if Fonzie was an elder god and Potsy was his herald of death and splishy splashy carnage

Given the powers he exhibits, that the Fonz is an avatar of a dread and incomprehensible cosmic entity is obvious. The question is whether the Fonz and Jolene are lovers, adversaries, or family.


Steve Cooper <@stevecooperorg> asks:

Is the beast a horse with no name?

Oh, the immortal Beast in the Master’s chambers has a name. One should pray never to hear it. Long ago there were those who tried to lure it through the desert in hopes that it would forget, but the Beast was far too cunning, so now it is their names which are lost to us.


Oiling my traps <@KaraSunburst> says:

On further reflection, I think “Spill The Wine” is like the Silmarillion to this. The wine, the girl? It’s all there.

Every kind of girl. Every kind of girl. If you understand the implications, then you see another clue about why wine has not been served at the Hotel California for more than half a century.


Rob Northrup. This Gun in My Hand podcast🕵 <@evilbobdayjob> reflects:

The Midnight Special or the train they call The City of New Orleans?

As a bonus, South Detroit is itself a fae land that humans rarely find. (Actual Detroiters call area to the South “Downriver”. No one but Journey calls any area “South Detroit”.)

Recall also that Midnight Train tickets are available to anywhere. But, once again, it is wise to carefully consider the risk if one rolls the dice just one more time.


porterwoman <@porterwoman> proposes:

So the Son of the Preacher Man was actually a changling, roaming the land, teaching and reaching out to mortals to bring to his mistress or master? Checks out 👍🏽

The sacred verses teach us that the Son travels with the Preacher Man, but uses his persuasive reassurances counter to his father’s will. One cannot trust the ease the Son offers to last.


Greys <@Greyist> says:

The Wayward Son is a hero that rises from men in times of great strife to bring peace, however brief, between the houses. They are not always welcome to do so, lead astray by mortal desires

There are in fact two Wayward Sons, brothers who know every back road and never stop anywhere for long. One is handsome and brash, the other beautiful and learnèd. No man, beast, fae, demon, or god can stand against them when they stand together.


Weaver95 🍔🍟 <@WeaverXP> asks:

But what about the joker, who said to the thief that there was too much confusion and could get no relief?

The Joker will tell you not to worry. He may offer to teach you a secret word which reveals the truth of love. He may hint that his name is Maurice.

Do not believe him. The Thief has his number. He speaks falsely.


CD <@Davisindisguise> asks:

How does Black Betty fit into all this

She is armed with a whip, a bottle of whiskey, and a flintlock musket. If she permits you to kiss her or one of these, choose wisely.

She stands with the House Of The Rising Sun, rock-steady in her fealty.

Fear her wild daughter, Brown Bess, who stands with no one.


Anosognosiogenesis <@pookleblinky> made the related observation:

Prince and David Bowie were 2 of the 3 mystical pillars holding the universe together. Dolly Parton is the third, and last. She is the only thing keeping reality itself from decomposing. She must be protected at all costs, the fate of the entire universe depends on it.

Tom Waits is not one of the pillars, but he has the important cosmic task of tricking people who attempt to find them.

And Dr Damien P Williams Warned You About Exactly This <@Wolven> adds a lovely bit of related lore:

Happy 70th to the undisputed king of hobos, tramps, rail-riders, yarn spinners, leg pullers,& backwoods devil deal-makers — we found his party clown in a diner built from the haunted rubble of the last Woolworths in Sheboygan — everybody give it up for Mr Thomas Bartholtleby Waits!

Now some people say it’s <@tomwaits>’ 73rd birthday, but see, he sold those extra three years back in ’97 for a pack of Pall Malls and a ’67 Chevy. Now the pall malls were stale and the chevy had a bad carburetor, but Jimmy the Pin had a line on fix and all old Tom had to do was run the Preakness and lose on the back of a broke down Palomino mule.

Now Tom stole the starter pistol so they had that downtown train whistle blowing like Gabriel kickin' down the absolute gates of hell to start the race when the jockey old Tom robbed for his saddle pulled his switchblade from a riding boot and a riding crop from exactly where you think he did and cut out sideways across the circuit riding Tom right down.

The polka band in the stands started playing a chase and Jimmy the Pin put that old carburetor right down in that ’67 Chevy and came barrelling around the bend just in time for Old Tom to jump right off the back of that palomino mule and through the window, and they took off out through the stables, and all to way down to the best diner in the Baltimore docks.

Never did see those three years again.


Responding to a lost tweet from Saladin Ahmed, I said that an important addition to the pop cosmology would be the trinity of Light Dolly, Dark Elvira, and the Red Sister.

setmajer he/him <@setmajer> offers deep lore on this:

The Red Sister is sibling to the Red Queen who in turn is the ancient antagonist of the all-knowing oracle Alice.

The Queen earned Alice’s eternal enmity when she sent her Knights in White Satin, famed for communicating entirely in reverse speech, to take Alice’s head.

Alice escaped thanks to instructions from her network of spies, known as the Chessmen.

Frustrated, the Queen lost the ability to distinguish fantasy from reality. She shot and killed a man named Andrew, who was her Sheriff, though she spared his Deputy.

However, some in the south whisper that it was in fact the Red Sister, reputedly an unerring huntress, who murdered Andy.

Sadly, it was an innocent, who returned from a ramble to discover his wife had an affair with Andy, who was sent to the dungeons of Folsom for the crime.

It is said that the Queen, her already-fragile sanity shattered by guilt, went over the hills to the Misty Mountains where to this day her shade can be heard wailing ‘Let me go!’

To which the sylphs reply, ‘Bismillah! We will not let you go!’

While most say her disciples simply grew tired and emotional due to her distant and fickle demeanour, in the southern province of Georgia some whisper the true cause was her infidelity with Seth and Andrew, and the conviction of her innocent husband for Andrew’s murder.

In this we see the cruelty of the fae, as in fact one of the sylphs, posing as a girl so fair, had captured the innocent Rambling Man’s soul as it departed his body and carried it over the hills and far away to become the Spirit in the Sky.

The Rambling Man, of course, was the son of The Gambler who also hailed from Georgia. But his is a story for another time.

Nor will I talk about the Midnight Rambler, who none living have seen, save to say that as to his purported seelie origins he’s not one of those.

I will add to that lore:

You can get anything you want at Alice’s Restaraunt. Except for Alice. She delivers what you want, not what you asked for, so a Thanksgiving dinner which cannot be beat may leave you with a criminal record … or may prevent you from being conscripted for military service … or both. As always with the fae, deal carefully, for the wyrd of price is impossible to predict.

29 May 2023

Short books for an inquisitive young fella

I do not simply endorse everything in these books — not by a long shot — but they are the kind of provocations which were powerful for me when I was a young bloke


  • Kieth Johnstone, Impro
  • James Carse, Finite and Infinite Games
  • George Leonard, Mastery
  • Robert Anton Wilson, Prometheus Rising
  • Lao Tzu, Tao te Ching
  • Marcus Aurelius, Meditations
  • Norman O. Brown, Love’s Body
  • Alan Watts, The Book: On The Taboo Against Knowing Who You Are
  • Harry G. Frankfurt, On Bullshit
  • Walter Benjamin, The Work of Art in the Age of Mechanical Reproduction
  • John Whiteside Parsons, Freedom is a Two Edged Sword
  • George Orwell, Why I Write
  • David Deida, Instant Enlightenment
  • John Stewart Mill, On Liberty
  • Daniel C. Dennett, Intuition Pumps

17 May 2023

Nonviolent Communication, abuse, social justice, and ... communication

The Nonviolent Communication toolset is powerful and useful in many situations. I think everyone can benefit from learing its fundamentals. I have benefitted immensely from exposure to it when I was very young.

And I think everyone needs to understand its limitations. I recommend the Real Social Skills essay Nonviolent Communication can hurt people as a helpful examination of this problem.

That approach is useful in situations in which people basically want to treat each other well but have trouble doing so because they don’t understand one another’s needs and feelings. In every other type of situation, the ideology and methodology of Nonviolent Communication can make things much worse.

I would expand on the description of where NVC serves well to say that all parties in the conversation must have a commitment to working in good faith toward a resolution which serves everyone, and must feel deep confidence that everyone in the conversation shares that commitment.

Those conditions do not apply in relationships with abuse. Lee Shevek <@ButchAnarchy> explains the abuse pattern:

If your conflicts with someone close to you (partner, family member, friend, etc.) regularly result in you feeling confused about the nature of the conflict, you may be in an abusive relationship. Seriously, it’s not spoken about as often as it should be but if your conflicts with someone are regularly leaving you confused / keep you confused throughout the conflict, it is very likely by design.

Your confusion is not, contrary to the other person’s assertions, a result of your own weakness. It is that you are engaging with someone in the assumption of good faith when there is, in reality, no good faith present, and doing so is a wildly confusing experience. You engage in conflict with the assumption that the person you’re in conflict with is raising whatever concern they have raised in good faith because that is the basis upon which mutual relationship is formed. But that is not the basis of abusive ones.

Abusers engage in conflict (and create conflict) in order to dominate and to win, and they do not recognize fair terms of engagement. While you’re still engaging in the assumption of good faith, their only actual goal is to undermine you and gain your submission.

It was exceptionally hard for me to come to a point of understanding my past relationship as abusive specifically because me ex’s particular form of abuse was all about covert manipulation and subtle attacks on my trust in my own perceptions. So while I often felt extremely hurt, anxious, fearful, etc. the overarching emotion I had in our conflicts was intense confusion because I assumed she approached our conflicts with the same mindset I did: to collaborate and come to a mutual decision. I assumed also that her random criticisms, the conflicts she initiated that seemed to aping up from nowhere and spin in circles until I was too fatigued to hold my own ground anymore, etc. where about the subject matter at hand, when they were really just tools of control.

For clarity: occasional confusion and misunderstanding is a part of all relationships. But it should be occasional, and it should also be able to be cleared up via communication and explanation. If it is a consistent feature of your conflicts with someone, it is a big red flag.

Another essay from Real Social Skills, NVC can be emotionally violent, focuses on such systematically abusive people weaponizing NVC patterns.

This abusive partner’s honest expression of his feelings is actually part of how he is abusing his partner. NVC has no way of recognizing the ways in which expression of genuinely felt emotions can be abusive. It also has no recognized way for someone to legitimately say “no, this is not a conversation I want to engage in” or “no, I don’t consider that feeling something I need to respond to or take into consideration.”

Part of what it would take for NVC to stop being an abusive culture it to recognize that NVC-style dialogue and emotional intimacy require consent every single time people interact that way.

I wish I had comparably lucid descriptions of how NVC breaks down with social injustices. I have some incomplete understanding from my own experience.

NVC teaches avoidance of language offering “objective” judgement in favor of describing one’s subjective experience. (I-statements!) But speaking this way from a privileged position in a world which overwhelmingly values the feelings of the privileged over the experiences of the oppressed implicitly centers the perspective of privilege. We must diligently avoid this on the merits. And as it generally offends the heck out of people in a marginalized position when they hear it, degrading the conversation.

Consider a white person using the NVC template and saying to a Black interlocutor, “When you told me that my actions were racist, I felt very uncomfortable.” Even if that white speaker does not hold Black people responsible to ensure their emotional comfort, or to ensure the ease of white people in general — even if the Black listener has direct experience demonstrating this commitment by the white speaker — in a world which insists on white comfort every turn, the painful inference is unavoidable.

Or consider a man trying to tell a woman that he is listening attentively in the NVC framework, saying that he recognizes the legitimacy of her anger and saying back his understanding of the grounds of that anger in order to check whether he has heard her correctly. That is easily read as an arrogation of a right to decide whether her anger is legitimate, based on her justifying the particulars to his satisfaction, since denying both of those is a familiar pattern from countless other interactions.

In a position of privilege one must actively counter the expectation that the oppressed must be deferential to the concerns of the privileged. NVC’s grounding in a presumption of goodwill cannot address this need.

NVC’s method of empathetic listening — asking about an interlocutor’s experience, listening, then reflecting back one’s understanding of what they say — can fail badly coming from a position of privilege. I have been in conversations in which I have tried to say that I support the legitimacy of a marginalized person’s anger, saying back my understanding of what the anger was about, and asking that person to tell me more to improve my understanding ... and had it read as arrogating my right to decide whether the anger was legitimate, demanding details of the circumstances before I would consider it justified to my satisfaction, which I understand because denying both of those is a familiar pattern I am sure my interlocutor had experienced in countless other interactions. Our conversations cannot set aside the context of a world which makes unreasonable demands on the marginalized. Pervasive injustices makes an uncharitiable reading of privileged speech and thought natural, even a necessity for survival in a hostile world.

Jeeyon Shim adds a sharp observation about NVC as a style of communication:

It’s also painful to see NVC used in contexts that add racial codeswitching as an element, too. I think of NVC as a very, very white way of speaking, and all that implies.

One very clear cut example is in conversations where not every participant might speak English as a first language. I’ve witnessed this firsthand because my dumb ass, excited by hearing about the technique for the first time from very, very white friends, tried it on my mom. One day I was like, “When you say I need to bring home better grades, I feel like you are exerting parental pressure on me to fulfill unrealistic performance standards.”

She literally said to me, deadpan in English, “Jeeyon, did you forget how to speak English?”

Obviously she is very funny and that was a very fucking funny joke, but also how many times has that gone in a way where people got really hurt? How does NVC perpetuate white standards of behavior and protocol that, ahem, for people of color are often unrealistic performance standards?

More from Shim:

One thing that’s dawning on me from the past couple years is that outside of their original contexts, restorative justice and non-violent communication techniques as applied to interpersonal dynamics are largely advantageous for white people who've had access to higher education.

It’s so easy for the language and tools presented in both to be leveraged against PoC and WoC, particularly people who’ve been raised with wildly different communication styles in their home (e.g. 2nd gen and 1st gen PoC).

There’s also an undercurrent (or overcurrent, often) of white saviorism to this idea that PoC communities or individual must be taught restorative justice or non-violent communication techniques in cases where they don’t voluntarily opt in that I’m really, really not a fan of.

I’ve also seen both sets of tools leveraged against various people with mental health needs that made it really hard to be present in the intensely engaged, sensitively-attuned ways that RJ and NVC necessitate, which also sucks to watch happen.

Basically I think, sort of like with laypeople’s use of therapeutic language and concepts (or, sadly, even therapists who utilize their knowledge unethically in interpersonal contexts e.g. armchair diagnoses of ppl they don't know), they are being misused in reductionist ways.

Because of early training in nonviolent communication, am working to break my habit of reflexively turning to its patterns in fraught conversations. I have bitter experience from how it breaks down in social justice conversations. I confess that this comes with a frustration that social justice advocacy culture has not developed a stronger set of protocols for people in privilege to engage responsibly and effectively in hard conversations, much less a practice with the the crisp, teachable quality which NVC has.

We rightly point to an obligation to step carefully when we stand in a privileged position. Much of the discussion around that addresses a long list of land mines to Not Step On, and I think much of that right and necessary. And we need more positive practices, more clarifying principles.

Too often I find myself in moments of confusion. Should I keep my big yap shut? Or is that leaving the work to the marginalized? Should keep my emotions out of this particular point, to avoid an implied demand for caretaking? Or will that land as intellectualizing painful experiences when I should engage from the heart?

How should the privileged act in good faith with people who have every reason to presume bad faith? The liberal-as-in-Isaiah-Berlin tradition does not offer good answers. This requires principles, commitment, and skills. And while the privileged have the greater obligation to change and invest energy in correcting these breakdowns, I presume that a better protocol for the privileged would have to interlock with a matching protocol for the marginalized. I do not have good resources to turn to in cultivating them.

I hope that such practices are possible. I am struck that Charles Lambdin’s essay Listening Creatively: Killing Giants and Catching Shapeshifters addresses related problems in talking about facilitating workplace collaborations where it can be very tricky to cultivate goodwill and equally difficult to spot and respond to hostility.

The second Protean game Sanford calls “The Bird in the Bushes.” This has to do with veiled remarks. Here, someone makes a comment, and you sense an undercurrent, an added, implied meaning. It is like you hear something in a nearby bush that flutters and chirps. You assume it’s a bird, but to really know … you would have to go look in the bush.

[⋯]

Learning to look “in the bush” is, to me, one of the most powerful metaphors in Sanford’s book. It is far more helpful than the oft-repeated nugget of corporate wisdom that you should just “assume positive intent.” Though well-meaning, this advice is naïve. It ignores both the reality of corporate politics and frankly human nature. The fact is that colleagues do not always have your best interest at heart and sometimes do not want you to succeed. Further, at times you must work with toxic people. Another common piece of advice is to “trust your gut.” Well, often you cannot do both. When your gut tells you there is a “bird in the bushes,” to just “assume good intent” is to pretend otherwise.

I want to get much better at this. I want all of us to get much better at this.

15 May 2023

Blockchain without math (plus a little more with a little math)

Here is my clear, simple, no-BS explanation of bitcoin and blockchain for civilians.

No math! You do not need it!

The basic thing

Think about the Visa card people. When you use your card to take some of your money and give it to that Etsy account to buy a cool Whatever, Visa records the change in a database in a secret cave somewhere:

  • –$25 you
  • +$25 them

This requires trusting the honesty of Visa. In theory they could cheat, giving money to their friends in the database. Bad for obvious (and not-so-obvious) reasons.

Ultimately, the government checks to make sure.

But let’s say you are a libertarian goldbug. You want the conveniences of electronic transactions, but you want government entirely out of the money business. Tricky, because someone has to make sure the ledger of Who Has How Much Money is honest, right?

Bitcoin solves this using a new technology called a “blockchain”. It means that no, we do not need to trust the people who maintain the database with the list of who has how much bitcoin, the way we have to trust the Visa people. The blockchain uses multiple synchronized databases, checked against each other. The software prevents cheating using the same basic cryptographic math which already makes it possible to safely send data like your credit card number over the internet.

Blockchain technology can maintain a trustworthy ledger of any shared information, not just bitcoin, without needing a trusted agent to maintain the database. It seems like this must be useful for something, right?

A lot of nerds who understand the math are working on potential applications. Many are goofy. Many are scams. Many, like bitcoin, try to create a scarce commodity (ideally, but not necessarily, a useful commodity) so that early players win at a gold rush. And a few are … intriguing.

It may be that none of the useful ideas pan out. But if one does, it could be huge. Time will tell.


That’s it.

A few big implications

Must a blockchain wreck the Earth?

Bitcoin uses an approach to the necessary math called “proof-of-work”. This makes computers sweat hard, which uses a lot of energy. A lot of our legacy electrical generators put carbon in the air, contributing to climate change. The energy cost of bitcoin is not just high; it increases with every transaction, making it unsustainable as a widely-used currency. (This is one reason why I am not a millionaire now. I knew early on about bitcoin and expected that it would get big — though I had no idea how big — and concluded that investing in it was not ethical.)

In theory, blockchain tech does not necessarily have to use such compute-intensive (and thus energy-intensive) methods. There are alternatives to proof-of-work, like proof-of-stake, which should use far less energy. But proof-of-work has a big head start, alternatives have not yet proved themselves, and many existing blockchain applications — notably including bitcoin — cannot migrate away from it.

NFTs: non-fungible tokens

Bitcoin is designed as an artificial commodity which shares many of the characteristics of gold. It is fungible: one bitcoin is the same as another, just as any ounce of gold is equivalent to another. But one could create a ledger listing unique things: non-fungible tokens with unique IDs.

In theory, one could use an NFT blockchain to assign a unique ID to any set of unique things: say, a database which knows who owns each Vermeer painting. For now, most NFT ledgers have no enforcement mechanism at all, so “owning” an NFT has as no more significance than the hokey certificate I have from a registry saying that there is a star named after me. Many scammy NFT systems do not even attempt to point to physical things, just invented commodities like ugly digital images.

Blockchain enthusiasts imagine that someday we will use NFTs to keep track of every thing in the world. No more arguments about whose soda that is in the fridge, who holds the title to that abandoned lot on the edge of town, et cetera; a database everyone can see will know all.

A word about geeky politics

Why feel spooked that the ledger for Visa et cetera depends on trusted institutions doing oversight? Why resent having government involved in making money work?

We have now had decades of idealistic and naïve tech geek politics which assumes that de-centralized technology structures inherently produce democratic, egalitarian, liberatory social consequences, protecting individual rights and freedom.

Consider John Perry Barlow’s breathless 1996 Declaration Of The Independence Of Cyberspace:

We have no elected government, nor are we likely to have one, so I address you with no greater authority than that with which liberty itself always speaks. [⋯] Cyberspace consists of transactions, relationships, and thought itself, arrayed like a standing wave in the web of our communications. Ours is a world that is both everywhere and nowhere, but it is not where bodies live. We are creating a world that all may enter without privilege or prejudice accorded by race, economic power, military force, or station of birth. We are creating a world where anyone, anywhere may express his or her beliefs, no matter how singular, without fear of being coerced into silence or conformity.

I do not think I need to explain how that is not quite working out the way that Barlow and countless other tech nerds imagined.

An instructive 1995 essay, The Californian Ideology, explores and criticizes these assumptions and others from the culture — and cultural politics — and politics politics — of “tech”.

On superficial reading, the writings of the Californian ideologists are an amusing cocktail of Bay Area cultural wackiness and in-depth analysis of the latest developments in the hi-tech arts, entertainment and media industries. Their politics appear to be impeccably libertarian - they want information technologies to be used to create a new “Jeffersonian democracy” in cyberspace in its certainties, the Californian ideology offers a fatalistic vision of the natural and inevitable triumph of the hi-tech free market.

History teaches us that this ideology is wrong. Barlow’s dream of an internet without prejudice failed. Bitcoin created — by design! — its own inequality, concentrating wealth in the hands of early enthusiasts. Decentralized technical architecture does not have the political virtues the Californian Ideology imagines. Indeed, decentralized designs tend to not work on the technical level.

More about how this works

Heck, what is a dollar?

Over on Bluesky, I offered the explanation above to Jeff Sharlet and he asked reasonably:

I’m stuck pretty early. What is a bitcoin? Like, I “know,” but no, I don’t really know, and one thing I’ve learned as a journalist is if I don’t know something, lots of other people don’t, either.

If a five year old asks me what a dollar is, I’d say it’s a green rectangle of paper you can trade for other things. If they asked “why,” I’d say, because we all agreed it is, and even though that’d be wrong, the 5-year-old would be satisfied. That’s my level.

The five year old understands that $1 “is” a green rectangle of paper, but coloring a rectangle green doesn’t make it $1. I understand that opening a Word doc and writing “1 bitcoin” doesn't make it so. But I don’t understand why not.

This is of course as tricky as thinking about what a dollar “is”. Either a number recorded in your bank account or a bill in your pocket can be “a” dollar, right? Why does this work?

  • Security measures ensure that all of those dollars are real. With bank account records, that means more people & processes. With bills, this is mechanical / infrastructural; mints use special paper and ink and printing plates et cetera to make it hard to create fake bills.
  • Rules control what banks can and cannot do in their account records, and control how bills are minted and distributed. There are an array of people & processes which run around enforce those rules.

A bitcoin is just a record on the bitcoin blockhain ledger, pretty much how a dollar in a bank account is just a record on the bank’s computer. But instead of using people & processes enforcing the security measures and rules, bitcoin uses software architecture.

Security measures — why they call it “crypto”

People refer to bitcoin, other cryptocurrencies inspired by bitcoin, and other blockchain applications as “crypto” because they rely on the math & computer science of cryptography.

A tiny bit of math

To go a step deeper on how that works, it does help to glance at three related facts about math:

  1. If one has two big prime numbers, it is easy to multiply them together.
    100,927 × 223,339 = 22,540,935,253
  2. If one has big number created by multiplying two prime numbers together and one also knows one of those prime factors, it is easy to find the other prime factor.
    22,540,935,253 ÷ 223,339 = 100,927
  3. But if one only has the big number created by multiplying two prime numbers together, figuring out what those prime numbers are turns out to be very hard.
    22,540,935,253 = ??? × ???

Without getting into more of the math (modular arithmetic! hash functions!) the bottom line is that this asymmetry in the difficulty of working with prime factors makes it possible to:

  1. Easily scramble information — “encrypting” it
  2. Easily unscramble that information — “decrypting” it — if one has the right number as a key
  3. Have confidence that no one can unscramble encrypted information without the key

Public key cryptography

Another math trick makes it possible to break keys into pieces in a useful way:

  1. Alice & Bob both create for themselves a pair of keys (a secret key which they keep to themself plus a public key they can let anyone see):
    Alice :: AS & AP
    Bob :: BS & BP
  2. When Alice wants to send a secret message to Bob, she combines her secret key with his public key to encrypt the message
    message ⚭ AS ⚭ BP   ➜   ζΞυηΑφδλ
  3. When Bob receives the encrypted message, he can combine his private key with her public key to decrypt and read it
    ζΞυηΑφδλ ⚭ AP ⚭ BS   ➜   message
  4. If someone else tries to read the encrypted message, knowing Alice’s public key & Bob’s public key won’t work
    ζΞυηΑφδλ ⚭ AP ⚭ BP   ➜   ??????

The main thing is that this means that you can send a secret message to a stranger. The two of you exchange public keys, then send encrypted messages which no one else can read. If someone intercepts everything you sent — the public keys and the messages — they cannot decrypt the messages to read them.

There are a lot more tricks one can do using this technology. Alice can use her secret key to “sign” a message such that anyone can use her public key to confirm both that it definitely came from her and that it is exactly the message she intended without alterations. So maintianing a shared blockchain ledger is a particularly clever and elaborate application of this basic technology …

Blockchain ➞ bitcoin

Cryptography ensures that when one database sends a change in the ledger to another database, the blockchain system can confirm that it is a legitimate change. This makes it possible to keep all of the databases synchronized without someone sneaking something fake into the ledger. That way, the constellation of many blockchain databases works as if it were a single database, without having to trust any of the people who run the computers where any of the databases live.

One can think of the bitcoin ledger as looking like:

  account   bitcoin
 
34189970₿ 53.4
34189971₿ 19.773
34189972₿ 0.224

When a person tells the bitcoin blockchain “I control Account 34189971 and want to transfer ₿2.5 to Account 987435”, that person uses their private key to confirm that they legitimately control Account 34189971.

The way the bitcoin blockchain handles the synchronization of multiple databases also allows people to keep cryptographically-validated numbers on their computers which they can use to transfer bitcoin between each other without having to contact the big synchronized databases on the blockchain immediately. Think of this as similar to how one can buy something with the imprint of a Visa card on a paper transaction receipt, sending the transaction information to the Big Visa Database later.


  
sliding credit card imprint taker with a paper transaction record

The software technology of the bitcoin blockchain ledger does not just ensure reliable & secure transactions, it imposes rules which shapes bitcoin to have certain characteristics —

Rules governing bitcoin

Again, bitcoin is …

  • an invented, artificial “commodity”
  • tracked in a peculiar database (the shared ledger, managed using blockchain tech)

Bitcoin only exists in the database, and obeys rules defined by the system’s creator, known only by the pseudonym Satoichi Nakamoto. Those rules draw on glibertarian goldbug thinking about money, so those rules give bitcoin characteristics paralleling gold:

  • Bitcoin is fungible: there is no difference between ₿1 in one account and ₿1 in another. There is not even an equivalent to the serial numbers on dollar bills.
  • Bitcoin is divisible: it can be sliced as finely as you want. One can have ₿1.7382416001, give ₿0.0000000014 to someone else, and have ₿1.7382425987 afterward. This makes it better to think not in terms of a number of bitcoins but rather in terms of an amount of bitcoin, much as one has an amount of gold.
  • Bitcoin transfers are anonymous & untraceable. One can send bitcoin from Account A to Account B with just the secret key for Account A and the ID of Account B. The blockchain ledger retains every transaction, but does not know who controls the accounts, or even what the accounts’ secret keys are.
  • There is a limited finite maximum amount of bitcoin: ₿21,000,000. Most of that is already assigned to particular accounts.
  • The amount of bitcoin assigned to people grows very slowly. New bitcoin gets assigned to accounts through “mining”: if one uses a computer to do computations which support the confirmation of transactions and the maintainance of the databases, the system rewards one’s account with a little bit of new bitcoin.

It turns out that goldbugs don’t understand how money works and why legacy financial systems work the way they do, leading to wags referring to bitcoin as “Dunning-Krugerands” and observing that bitcoin and other cryptocurrencies it has inspired as “speedrunning financial fraud”. In particular, bitcoin’s gold-like qualities make it volatile, deflationary, and generally unsuited to serve as the currency it was intented to become.

11 May 2023

ROI & faustian bargains in design

Erica Hall says:

The “ROI of UX” is a thought terminating cliché.

The working assumption that business interests and user interests are inherently aligned (they are often not) prevents designers from doing the work that would be more likely to bring those interests into alignment.

Amen. I think user experience designers do need to be smart about about the relationship between user needs and business interests, but simply accepting creation of that alignment as part of designers’ mandate is a dangerous idea.

I like to describe UX design as offering a kind of benign faustian bargain.

Hey, Corporate Organization, I will figure out some things which will serve users well. Surely you can find a way to make money from that.

Which is okay-ish to a first approximation. But. There are subtleties.

It is irresponsible and ineffective for UXDs to simply throw cool product & service ideas over the wall to The Corporation to figure out how to make them viable business ideas. UXDs have a distinct role of user advocacy, but that is not wholly separate from the business. Doing the work properly requires deep engagement in the business without simply becoming a servant of the business only. Hall underlines this distinction between informed engagement and simple-minded service in pointing to how creating profitable-but-bad user experiences is, unhappily, what many digital designers do with their day:

The historical ROI of being shitty to people is quite impressive.

If UX designers simply understand our role entirely as a way to Deliver Business Value, we become not user advocates but user manipulators. I reject the tech industry, public, and even many members of the profession seeing our work that way.

As various folks underlined in replies to Hall’s Twitter post, the question of “return-on-investment of design” is a pernicious instrument of people holding corporate power who resist design disrupting their comfort. We ask for many proofs of ROI in business but do not ask that the professions of management or executives or IT or countless other org roles justify their existence as professions this way. A Twitter thread by my old boss Alan Cooper raises this point …

Where is it written in stone that designers need to know business? Why don’t business people have to learn about design?

There are a lot of fine businesses out there, but there is a distinct shortage of well-designed products. I’m saying that the critical ingredient in successful products isn’t middle management but rather design.

And when I talk about good design, I’m not talking about white space and the color wheel, I’m talking about knowing what motivates the user and then giving it to them.

Isn’t that, in fact, what a good business does? They find their user community, figure out what they are trying to accomplish and why, and then give it to them. That’s design, not business.

Remember when Apple kicked out Jobs and hired all those great business people? That didn’t really work out for them. When Jobs finally came back, he made the user the most important thing, and they succeeded.

Look at a company like Nest. Running a thermostat company is not a great challenge. Designing a thermostat that changes the entire thermostat business is. The critical ingredient is user-centered design, not business.

All this talk about designers needing to know business is a lot of crap perpetuated by people who have learned that business is much easier than design is.

To paraphrase an old comic book, Design will get you through times of no business, better than business will get you through times of no design.

I too would ask why we hear so many demands that “designers have to understand the business" but few that "businesspeople have to understand design”.

… and I want to frame that a little differently. I too would ask why we hear so many demands that “designers have to understand the business” but few that “businesspeople have to understand design”. Everyone in a business organization needs to operate in a way that is generally aware of the concerns of the business, but it is striking that there are special calls for designers in particular to deeply understand the business.

Designers must admit that part of the issue is that there are some “designers” who do work which is almost willfully unconnected to the needs of the businesses they serve. They are a disgrace to the design profession and all too common, poisoning the water for all of us. When a client tells me that they are keen to get “actionable” design, often it means that they have experienced irresponsibly useless “design” work. (And of course now they are stingy with time and money, having sunk both into work they could not use.)

But that plea for “actionable” design which “understands the business” can also reflect narrow-mindedness: “I want a design which does not disrupt my business model, development process, or marketing. And make sure it is easy to implement.”

So ... don’t innovate. Great.

The most business-savvy design work I have ever done has not always gone over well. “Why are you talking about the business model?!?” Well, my user research showed you were planning to sell the wrong service; I designed the right thing, and the business model was part of it.

Considering how well I understand the business of my clients, and how poorly the business people I work with understand what I do, I share Cooper’s resentment driving him to say that the business really needs to work to better understand design more than vice versa.

“Design needs to understand business” reflects the absence of true product management, which is why I sometimes say that strengthening PM is one of the best things we can do for the profession of UXD and the UX of the systems we create. Yes, UX designers need to understand the business, technical, and marketing context of their work, but I disagree profoundly with the common contention that aligning UX design work with business objectives is UX designers’ responsibility. Creating that alignment is the function of product management. PM aligns all of the product team members with the biz goals (and each others’ efforts).

That gives UXDs at least the potential for a clean place to stand, acting as a full-throated advocate for users and people at large in the systems we work on. You may have heard of a company headquartered in Cupertino, California which tries to follow this model and even without always doing it well has won the biggest market capitalization of any corporation in the world.

But the ground is difficult. Hall reminds us:

Anyone who calls themself a designer, particularly a UX designer, has to confront the fact that what is good for business/investors and what is good for humans—even the rarefied tranche of the population that gets elevated consideration as "users"—is divergent and trending worse.
Mauricio Mejía asks:
Has it ever been convergent?
Answering this (to what extent do business interests/capitalism and human welfare ever converge) requires way more than a tweet. The fundamental premise of UX design is that the goals can converge.

Financialization in particular splits use value from exchange value.

Hall expands on the bind financialized market capitalism creates for ethical design:

A design education is incomplete unless it provides the tools to determine to what extent the needs, objectives, and incentives for an organization are in alignment with those of its audience, customers, users, partners, employees, etc. The entire field of UX needs to be rethought from the perspective that perceived/actual value to the user and perceived/actual value to the business are often very deeply at odds.

Power analysis is a critical part of this. Value to people with the most power in a system is not always financial, even if the system is nominally a business.

[Gestures around]

So, the idea that you can just make a case for user-centered design in terms of ROI is naïve.

If you’re in a public company, it’s about whatever makes the market happy—often the narrative more than the fundamentals (see: layoffs) at least in the short term.

If you’re in a private company, it depends on the goals of the owners.

Welcome to the worst case scenario.

I hope the UX design profession can find a way through.

04 May 2023

Credit cards as a fae bargain

Dreading Twitterpocalypse, I am transcribing this thread by Avery Alder

Here is how credit cards work:

Imagine stumbling into a fairy ring that belongs to the fairy mafia. An enchanting being appears, smile wide enough to reveal rows of sharp and glistening teeth, and it remarks, “Why, traveler, you look positively destitute! I have just the thing!”

It turns its palms up, revealing fistfuls of gold coins. Gold coins falling to the moss below. Gold coins all around you.

“Borrow whatever you’d like! Just bring it back by the next full moon, alright, my sweet?”

That’s when you notice its necklace of withered human fingers.

You take a handful of gold coins, because you really do need the money. As long as you pay this strange creature back before the next full moon, nothing bad will come of it.

Now, obviously the fairy is trying to trick you. You know that! But you’re confident you can outwit it.

You borrow what you need, and you return it to that magical forest place before the moon fills. All is well. Better than well! The fairy grows fond of you, leaving you larger and larger piles of gold to borrow.

Other fairies begin to make offerings to you as you walk the woods.

One month, life is particularly cruel to you. You can’t pay back the gold you borrowed.

On the night of the full moon, the being appears. “Don’t worry, my sweet. I am merciful. Just give me what you have today, and pay the rest by next moon.” It strokes its gruesome necklace.

“I’m sorry,” you say. “I’ll earn the money. I’ll pay back the debt!”

“Don’t worry at all, precious darling! All in due time. Things have a way of working themselves out.” And then, before disappearing in a puff of smoke, whispered under its breath: “that’s the first finger.”

The fairy keeps leaving you bigger piles of gold. The temptation grows stronger. Eventually, you come to think of it as your gold.

You borrow too much sometimes, and can’t pay it back. “Two fingers,” it whispers without sound. Then three. It keeps letting you take more money.

One day, you realize that regardless of whether you make good on your debts, you can’t stop borrowing more gold. Not only because you’ve built your life around it, but also because if you ever stopped borrowing it would make the fairies very angry. Not just this one. All of them.

You look around you at the world. Your fellow villagers have all fallen under the sway of the fairies. Borrowed fairy gold runs your whole town. People only do business with others if they are known to be in the favour of the fairies. Every day, more hands with missing fingers.

The savvy villager knows just what to do: borrow small amounts of gold regularly, to attract the attention and good graces of the fairies, and always repay it in full before the next moon, knowing it is not their gold. Get charmed and keep their fingers.

Few villagers are savvy.

Anyways, “sinister temptations from the fairy mafia, who will love you dearly if you play their game right” is the framework that helps me make my best credit decisions. Maybe it will be helpful to someone else out there too.

03 May 2023

Paradox of tolerance

Capturing commentaries on the liberal Paradox Of Tolerance for convenience.


  
The Paradox Of Tolerance with philosopher Karl Popper
(source: ‘The Open Society And Its Enemies’)
  
Should a tolerant soceity tolerate intolerance?
[ People telling a skinhead carrying a torch, 
  wearing a swastika, ”no-swastikas!”
  The skinhead replies, 
  “You want more tolerance? Respect my ideas!” ]
The answer is No.
  
It’s a paradox, but unlimited tolerance can lead to the extinction of tolerance.

When we lend toleramce to those who are openly intolerant …
[ Bismark says to Hitler, “Let’s give them a chance!” ]
The tolerant ones end up being destroyed … and tolerance with them.
  
Any movement preaching intolerance and persecution must be outside the law.
As paradoxical as it may seem, defending tolerance … requires us to not tolerate the intolerant.
  
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Responsibility for a movement and its space

If you are in a rally and there’s a Nazi flag and the person holding the flag is not getting kicked out.

Well … you are in a Nazi rally.

The punk bar story

The classic from Michael B. Tager <@IamRageSparkle>:

I was at a shitty crustpunk bar once getting an after-work beer. One of those shitholes where the bartenders clearly hate you.

So the bartender and I were ignoring one another when someone sits next to me and he immediately says, “no. get out.”

And the dude next to me says, “hey i’m not doing anything, i’m a paying customer.”

and the bartender reaches under the counter for a bat or something and says, “out. now.” and the dude leaves, kind of yelling. And he was dressed in a punk uniform, I noticed

Anyway, I asked what that was about and the bartender was like, “you didn’t see his vest but it was all nazi shit. Iron crosses and stuff. You get to recognize them.”

And i was like, ohok and he continues. “you have to nip it in the bud immediately. These guys come in and it’s always a nice, polite one. And you serve them because you don’t want to cause a scene. And then they become a regular and after awhile they bring a friend. And that dude is cool too.

And then THEY bring friends and the friends bring friends and they stop being cool and then you realize, oh shit, this is a Nazi bar now. And it’s too late because they’re entrenched and if you try to kick them out, they cause a PROBLEM. So you have to shut them down.”

And i was like, “oh damn.”

and he said “yeah, you have to ignore their reasonable arguments because their end goal is to be terrible, awful people.”

And then he went back to ignoring me. But I haven’t forgotten that at all.


This thread took off unexpectedly. Support your local antifa and black lives matter people. You know who they are.

Interlocking liberal principles

I like to summarize Isaiah-Berlin-liberal approach to fraught disagreements (especially in the public sphere) as a need to exercise six key principles together:

  1. Honesty — always speak in good faith, telling the truth as well as one knows it, especially about oneʼs own ideas and intentions
  2. Generosity — start from a presumption that everyone speaks & acts in good faith
  3. Vigilance — always watch carefully for bad actors
  4. Skepticism — demand strong evidence before accepting that someone is a bad actor
  5. Transparency — publicly document evidence of bad actors
  6. Safety — ruthlessly exclude demonstrated bad actors

Omit one element and the whole thing falls apart. More on that ….

Overworking presumption of good faith

Generosity above only works as part of a system which also exercises the other principles, delivering safety. Brian Beutler folds this together with the challenges of free speech.

The liberal commitment to free speech is inviolable. But it does not follow that liberals must extend the presumption of good faith to everyone engaged in free speech. Right-wing operators in particular are groomed and trained to embrace bad-faith argument as a tactic. And yet even in the Trump era, when the bad faith is so thinly veiled, liberals remain reluctant to treat it as disqualifying. Even when their counterparties have established long track records of bad faith.

I’m not referring here to competitive debaters like Mehdi Hasan. Competitive debate can be a breeding ground for bad faith, but it can also be a useful format for exposing bad faith. And, if you watch, you’ll see Hasan plainly didn’t realize he’d be debating unapologetic fascists.

No, the suckers here are liberal journalists and intellectuals who maintain that facts and reason are the only rightful tools of discourse. That liberalism’s great strength is its capacity to depersonalize arguments. To ignore evidence of bad faith and deal with text. To steelman instrumental arguments and refute them. Win the battle of ideas.

But this is wrong. It’s wrong in the cliched sense that lies travel faster than truth — because concocting nonsense is much easier than reciting truths carefully, or using precise logic. And it’s wrong in that it widens the loophole for unscrupulous actors. If liberals are committed to the presumption of good faith, how can they object when news outlets recruit liars and propagandists to offer up the conservative “perspective” on the issues of the day? This is how a shabby propagandist like Byron York remained a fixture on NPR well into the Trump era, and why CNN offered contributor contracts to vile liars like Cory Lewandowski and Jeffrey Lord. Why it still reserves a seat at the table for an odious position-taker like Scott Jennings.

[⋯]

⋯ At some level they know there is a place for shunning. It exists on a spectrum just as the presumption of good faith exists on a spectrum. We should presume good faith, but the presumption should fall quickly as contrary evidence mounts, and it should be hard to earn back. The boycott method should be used sparingly, but then ruthlessly when needed. And we should make peace with judging character, even if in the Trump era it just means there aren’t many self-described conservatives worth taking seriously.

Tolerance as social contract

Tumblr commentary by mittensmorgul:

The Paradox of Tolerance disappears if you look at tolerance, not as a moral standard, but as a social contract.

If someone does not abide by the terms of the contract, then they are not covered by it.

In other words: The intolerant are not following the rules of the social contract of mutual tolerance.

Since they have broken the terms of the contract, they are no longer covered by the contract, and their intolerance should NOT be tolerated.

Inspired by Tolerance is not a moral precept by Yonatan Zunger

And commasameleon:

Sorry as someone who teaches rhetoric this is a wonderful response to the Paradox of Tolerance. I cannot tell you how many times my students have had debates about this. This is the response. This does indeed fix it. I cannot wait to tell this to my classes now. Philosophically and rhetorically this completely resolved the Paradox of Tolerance and I am floored by its simplicity and angry I never saw it before.

Zunger’s essay “Tolerance Is Not A Moral Precept”

The title of this essay should disturb you. We have been brought up to believe that tolerating other people is one of the things you do if you’re a nice person — whether we learned this in kindergarten or from Biblical maxims like “love your neighbor as yourself” and “do unto others.”

But if you have ever tried to live your life this way, you will have seen it fail: “Why won’t you tolerate my intolerance?” This comes in all sorts of forms: accepting a person’s actively antisocial behavior because it’s just part of being an accepting group of friends; being told that prejudice against Nazis is the same as prejudice against Black people; watching people try to give “equal time” to a religious (or irreligious) group whose guiding principle is that everyone must join them or else.

Every one of these examples should raise your suspicions that something isn’t right; that tolerance be damned, one of these things is not like the other. But if you were raised with an intense version of “tolerance is a moral requirement,” then you may feel that this is a thought you should fight off.

It isn’t.

Tolerance is not a moral absolute; it is a peace treaty. Tolerance is a social norm because it allows different people to live side-by-side without being at each other’s throats. It means that we accept that people may be different from us, in their customs, in their behavior, in their dress, in their sex lives, and that if this doesn’t directly affect our lives, it is none of our business. But the model of a peace treaty differs from the model of a moral precept in one simple way: the protection of a peace treaty only extends to those willing to abide by its terms. It is an agreement to live in peace, not an agreement to be peaceful no matter the conduct of others. A peace treaty is not a suicide pact.

When viewed through this lens, the problems above have clear answers. The antisocial member of the group, who harms other people in the group on a regular basis, need not be accepted; the purpose of your group’s acceptance is to let people feel that they have a home, and someone who actively tries to thwart this is incompatible with the broader purpose of that acceptance. Prejudice against Nazis is not the same as prejudice against Blacks, because one is based on people’s stated opposition to their neighbors’ lives and safety, the other on a characteristic that has nothing to do with whether they’ll live in peace with you or not. Freedom of religion means that people have the right to have their own beliefs, but you have that same right; you are under no duty to tolerate an attempt to impose someone else’s religious laws on you.

This is a variation on the old saw that “your right to swing your fist ends where my nose begins.” We often forget (or ignore) that no right is absolute, because one person’s rights can conflict with another’s. This is why freedom of speech doesn’t protect extortion, and the right to bear arms doesn’t license armed robbery. Nor is this limited to rights involving the state; people can interfere with each other’s rights with no government involved, as when people use harassment to suppress other people’s speech. While both sides of that example say they are “exercising their free speech,” one of them is using their speech to prevent the other’s: these are not equivalent. The balance of rights has the structure of a peace treaty.

Unlike absolute moral precepts, treaties have remedies for breach. If one side has breached another’s rights, the injured party is no longer bound to respect the treaty rights of their assailant — and their response is not an identical violation of the rules, even if it looks superficially similar to the original breach. “Mommy, Timmy hit me back!” holds no more ethical weight among adults than it does among children.

After a breach, the moral rules which apply are not the rules of peace, but the rules of broken peace, and the rules of war. We might ask, is the response proportional? Is it necessary? Does it serve the larger purpose of restoring the peace? But we do not take an invaded country to task for defending its borders.

Take the example of a group silencing another using harassment. Many responses may be appropriate. Returning harassment in turn, for example, is likely to be proportional, although it is rarely effective — harassment usually occurs in a situation where the sides do not have equal power to harm each other in that way. On the other hand, acting to restrict the harassers’ ability to continue in the future — even at the expense of limiting their right to speak — may be both proportional and effective. But lining the aggressors up against a wall and shooting them would not only be disproportionate, it would be unlikely to restore the peace.

No side, after all, will ever accept a peace in which their most basic needs are not satisfied — their safety, and their power to ensure that safety, most of all. The desire for justice is a desire that we each have such mechanisms to protect ourselves, while still remaining in the context of peace: that the rule of law, for example, will provide us remedy for breaches without having to entirely abandon all peace. Any “peace” which does not satisfy this basic requirement, one which creates an existential threat to one side or the other, can never hold.

If we interpreted tolerance as a moral absolute, or if our rules of conduct were entirely blind to the situation and to previous actions, then we would regard any measures taken against an aggressor as just as bad as the original aggression. But through the lens of a peace treaty, these measures have a different moral standing: they are tools which can restore the peace.


The model of a peace treaty highlights another challenge which tolerance always faces: peace is not always possible, because sometimes people’s interests are fundamentally incompatible. Setting aside the obvious example of “I think you and your family should be dead!” (even though that example may be far more common than we wish), there are many cases where such fundamental incompatibility can arise despite good faith on all sides.

Imagine, for example, that you had good reason to believe that a monster was on its way to attack your town, slaughtering everyone in its path. You and your fellow townsfolk would be wise to arm yourselves and set up a defensive perimeter. If the danger were clear and present, the monster visible on the horizon, you would rightly see anyone who didn’t participate without a good reason as a no-good freeloader.

Some failures to participate are more dangerous than others. If any noise might attract the monster’s attention, then dancing and reveling of any sort must be forbidden; you put not only yourself at risk, but everybody around you. If it’s a horror-movie monster, attracted by premarital sex, then this might be restricted as well. And what if some kinds of people pose a danger to the town by their very existence? Is it worth the town’s life to let them stay? A town in enough danger might make a moral choice to exile, or even sacrifice, some of its members.

But now imagine that half the town has good reason to fear this monster — credible reports from people they trust, centuries of documentation from other towns — while the other half has equally good reason to believe that these reports are fables. One side believes, in good faith, that these strict rules are all that protect the town from a horrible fate; the other, that these rules harm, punish, exile, or even kill them for no legitimate reason at all, other than the power of the first side. So long as there is real uncertainty about the monster, each side has good reason to view the other as an existential threat.

This hypothetical is, of course, no hypothetical. For anyone who believes in a god who will torment unbelievers, the “monster” is divine wrath. This is even more true if sin — which attracts this wrath — can spread like a contagion through an entire community. If everything you have ever learned tells you that this is a real and present danger, and that certain members of the community — members of another religion, perhaps, or people of the wrong sexual orientation— are jeopardizing everyone’s safety, then a fundamental, existential conflict is inevitable.

Many of you are probably reading this and saying that in this case, one side is right and the other is wrong, and the clear resolution is for one side to stop harming fellow members of the community. If one side were doing what it was doing in bad faith, that might be the answer — but the point here is that if both sides were acting in perfect faith, for either side to concede would be a death sentence. In a situation like this, there can be no peace treaty; only war or separation.

Since separation is often just as unacceptable as surrender— one side essentially needing to flee and give up everything they have in the world, from their homes and their jobs to their social ties — it is rarely a meaningful solution. It does not conform to the requirements of real peace. (This is why “white separatism” is, in practice, just a rebranding of white supremacy; white separatists never seem to suggest that they should be the ones who should leave their homes and lives behind.)

As with any peace treaty, we must consider toleration in the broader context of the war which is its alternative, and we must recognize that peace is not always a possibility.

But let me offer a small measure of hope. Among the worst wars of tolerance were the religious wars which tore through Europe between 1524 and 1648. These wars were predicated on precisely the sort of incompatibility described above, with Protestants and Catholics each seeing the other as existential threats. As states aligned with each side, the penalty for disagreement became exile or death, a condition no one could accept.

But even after six generations of fighting, and tens of millions of dead, these wars came to an end. The Peace of Westphalia, the series of treaties which ended them, was built on two radical tenets: that each ruler had the right to choose the religion of their state, and that Christians living in principalities where their faith was not the established faith still had the right to practice their religion. A decision was made, in essence, to accept the risk of the monster rather than the reality of the war.

The Peace of Westphalia was the political foundation for the concept of secularism: that religious matters are so uncertain that the state should not have the power to mandate them. It remains one of the classic peace treaties between fundamentally incompatible groups. It was also, in turn, the basis for the concept of religious freedom brought by European settlers to North America; the American Bill of Rights is its direct descendant.


What this teaches us is that tolerance, viewed as a moral absolute, amounts to renouncing the right to self-protection; but viewed as a peace treaty, it can be the basis of a stable society. Its protections extend only to those who would uphold it in turn. To withdraw those protections from those who would destroy it does not violate its moral principles; it is fundamental to them, because without this enforcement, the treaty would collapse. It is appropriate, even ethical, to answer force with proportional force, when that force is required to restore a just peace. We seek peace because on the whole it is far better than war; but as history has taught us, not every peace is better than the war it prevents.

Is life so dear, or peace so sweet, as to be purchased at the price of chains and slavery? Forbid it, Almighty God! I know not what course others may take, but as for me, give me liberty, or give me death!

— Patrick Henry, speech to the 2nd Virginia Convention, March 23, 1775

Adam Bates on wolves and sheep

You can say “all are welcome,” but if wolves and sheep are both welcome then you’re only going to get wolves. The the smart sheep will go somewhere else and the naïve sheep will be eaten and processed. If you welcome Islamophobes and Muslims then you’ll get Islamophobes. If you welcome Klan members and people of color then you’ll get Klan members. If you welcome nativists and immigrants you’ll get nativists.

Refusing to choose is a choice. It’s a choice in favor of the people who prey on others and who refuse to acknowledge the humanity of those they hate.

Pookleblinky on contact with bad faith actors producing bad habits

(Also relevant to my posts on the far right speaking in bad faith and social media shitstorms.)

The principle of charity is especially important under conditions of enforced brevity, such as having 300 character limits.

Being able to read something and not interpret it in the least charitable possible way, is a skill. A skill that atrophies if it is never used.

This is why you do not want to argue with Nazis, and instead violently repel then from your spaces: they delight in bad faith. Spending too long in a Nazi bar will make you really good at talking to people who delight in absurdity and bad faith. And this will make you really bad when speaking to literally anyone else about anything.

Making you unable to charitably interpret things other people say, is one of the things it delights Nazis to do. While you are in a Nazi bar, the principles of tolerance and charity are manipulated to keep you from kicking them out. And then, when you go home, you find yourself no longer able to communicate with people you actually agree with. This is a win:win for Nazis.

Vigorously kicking Nazis out of your space, is necessary if you want to still be able to communicate with normal people.

There is a joke here that half of leftist infighting is due to this deliberate destruction of the principle of charity, and the other half is stuff like COINTELPRO.

Leftist communities are inherently warped and deformed by exposure to Nazis. This is one reason why nazis take such delight in speaking in bad faith. Their mere presence erodes the things that allow humans to communicate. You have never seen a leftist community without this endless giggling bad faith attack on its ability to communicate.

Not only do nazis corrode the basic mechanisms of human communication, but they do so for fun. For shits and giggles. You can literally see them smirk when they do it. —


One reason not to argue with fascist incel losers is that you get really good at arguing with fascist incel losers. Like any skill, less thought is now required. After arguing all day long with fascist incel losers, you've trained yourself to be unable to have conversations with normal people.

There is a nerd term for this, the Einstellung Effect. After arguing with 9 worthless assholes, you’re gonna behave the same way when arguing with the next random person you bump into.

Blocking these obnoxious assholes does many good things, and one of the most important ones is that it prevents you from getting really good at arguing with obnoxious assholes. You don’t want your default interaction with normal people, to be trained on and specialized in, these obnoxious assholes.

After a long hard day arguing with nazis instead of blocking them, you are guaranteed to not be able to be normal to the next person you bump into. You’ve spent hours repetitively training yourself.

Same reason why cops scream “stop resisting” at grandmothers they’ve pushed out of wheelchairs. You get good at what you do.

If that’s interacting with absolute fucking scum, you’re gonna be really good at treating your friends and family and total strangers like shit.

Grinda on 4Chan

4chan nowadays is a rightwing hate forum, but you gotta understand in the 2000s it was just a place for hyperspecific interests and countercultural stuff which had a contingent of hateful people

Because the site never banned the hateful, more right-wingers came there specifically to be hateful

“4chan was uniquely the worst place on the internet” people who were never on early Newgrounds, who were never on unmoderated irc channels, on niche forums, etc. It sucked. It sucked bad. I will not say it didn’t suck. 2026 4chan sucks so much more it is difficult to comprehend the gap.

4chan’s history is like the ultimate example of “any bar that doesn’t ban Nazis quickly becomes a Nazi bar”. It was just, like, the place people went to talk about anime and other niche stuff originally.

I think 4chan’s turn into a rightwing hate forum really came about with gamergate, and that time a hacker nonconsensually leaked a bunch of celebrity nudes there. A wider audience learned about 4chan as a place to be hateful and misogynistic, so they increasingly went there specifically to do that.

Meanwhile, other social media websites that were also suitable for niche interest discussion started to crop up — tumblr, reddit, etc. — so people who weren’t interested in saying slurs increasingly left 4chan for those sites instead, leaving the place only home to Nazis

It’s true that a lot of trans women of a certain age used to use 4chan circa the 2000s, but that's because a lot of trans women of that age bracket were into anime and JRPGs

It’s like judging someone for having used Twitter in 2016, before Musk bought it

A word from Worf


           
Worf & Raffi from the Star Trek series ‘Picard’ are talking:

Worf:
If someone laugh-reacts a serious post or comment about tolerance, they are telling you they will not be tolerant. Believe them. And block them.
           
Raffi:
But what do I say when they say I’m being intolerant?
           
Worf:
If they come to your house to disresepct you, why would you allow them to define respect?